sobota, 24. april 2010

Tips to Find Your Soulmate

Tips to Find Your Soulmate
Attracting your soulmate
by Daina Hulet
Print Send to a Friend ShareThisIf you're not one to wait for the universe to take its sweet time, then it's important to know what kind of person you are in order to find your best strategy for finding a soulmate, tells Tammy ext. 9380. "If you are inclined to pursue, then get active, get out there and make sure you are in all kinds of places that speak to your heart. If you attract people to you, visualize them and listen for inner guidance."

Be open to dreams and signs and the universe will guide you to your soulmate, Meryl ext. 9376 believes, as does psychic Becky ext. 9605, who at age 34 recently met her soulmate online. "Use your intuition when meeting people. Don't assume that everyone is your potential soulmate. Never force or be forced to connect with someone. When the universe brings this person to you, you will both feel it without a doubt. I've had soulful connections before, I've been proposed to… but I've never felt butterflies in my feet. What a feeling!"


Our psychics, who believe in being proactive in seeking out a soulmate, suggest creating a love list - a wish list of characteristics, wants and inner needs you'd like to attract. Write it in the present tense and then release it to the universe. When you wake up in the morning, grab your list and say out loud, "Today as I go about my day I am open to meet the perfect person for me with the following qualities…"Then read your list. When you finish, affirm,"I am open to meet this person and have them love me as much as I love them." Do it every day for at least one lunar cycle, or 28 days.



From the intuitive point of view that there is nothing we can do to make the other person come to us in a flash, our psychics' consensus is to just stop looking - desperation tends to send soulmates running. Stay out of the universe's way. When we try to orchestrate things ourselves, we often end up delaying the process or settling for second best. Instead, put yourself "in the meantime." It's a place of self-improvement, finding one's niche and becoming the person that the universe wants us to be. "Through cultivation of our spirit-filled path and the ability to be complete and happy, we draw our soulmate to us."


Jonathan ext. 9601 agrees, "If you cannot find happiness and contentment within yourself, there is nothing that can bring it to you. Your soulmate will not be drawn to you unless (and until!) you are content with yourself. Content souls meant to be together will find each other."


When a soul is ready to find a mate, and the universal timing is imminent, psychics have various ways of reading the meeting. "I can see a pink light around the caller and the person they are meant to be with. I can also sense a giving, loving feeling emanating from the other person. It's a definite draw, like two magnets," describes Ariel ext. 9775 .


One of my favorite readings is a "soulmate sighting" says Tammy. "Working with the caller's name and general location I look around them Clairvoyantly and see who shows up!"


Whether you meet your soulmate after intentionally working to attract them, or bump into them right outside your front door… the relationship only begins there. All relationships require work, even when they're made up of two like souls who love and respect each other.

How to build your bond

How to build your bond
by Eric J. Leech
Print Send to a Friend ShareThisThe seven stages of relationship development are a challenging yet necessary part of life. There's passionate love, discovery, commitment, power struggles, stability and growth, romantic love, and finally -- crisis and recovery. In order to foster a better relationship, it helps to be able to identify your current stage, understand why its importance, and know what you must do to break through to the next level. Let's look at the seven stages in detail.

Stage 1: Passionate Love
This is what most people think when they imagine young or destined love. Birds are chirping, the glass is half full, and the "love" chemicals (dopamine and phenylethalymine) have engorged the neural pathways of the brain, making you feel happy, invincible, and on top of the world. This stage often begins on the first date, and ends the day you see the person for who they really are (good or bad). To move past this honeymoon stage, don't allow the "high" to cloud your judgment about the person you're dating (i.e. an incompatible partner). Most broken hearts stemming from this stage belong to lovers who failed to see the writing on the wall.

Stage 2: Discovery
Under certain circumstances, such as when you've found your compatible soulmate, discovery can be a wonderful experience, but more than likely it will be a time of discouragement. As relationships wear on, the love chemicals in the brain begin to dry up along with our perfect perceptions of the person we're with. The person we once thought was flawless is actually human, complete with strange quirks, bad habits, and differing view points. The key to getting past this stage is discovering what it is you truly need from your partner, while learning to let go of all the little nit picky things that don't matter.

Stage 3: Commitment
We emerge from discovery with a new understanding of our partner. This stage offers security and confidence that we're with the right person, and we settle down into a committed relationship. Commitment is a wonderful change from the jealousy and/or uncertainty of stages 1 and 2, but we now have a new enemy -- monotony and boredom. Many couples become so relaxed, they forget to maintain their relationship with a dose of romance and surprise. The most effective way to push through this stage is to learn how to communicate effectively.

Stage 4: Power Struggles
Occasionally, a power struggle can occur before making a commitment. To secure a meaningful outcome, each partner must exhibit a certain level of ownership to their relationship. In stage three we were working on our partnership, and in stage four, we're rediscovering our individuality and ability to control the relationship. Perhaps you've been fishing because your partner enjoys it, but now you'd like them to do some of the things you enjoy. Perhaps they want the kitchen to be blue, but you'd much prefer red. The key to working through these types of arguments is to recognize and respect individuality, and the best way to do this is by compromise.

Stage 5: Growth & Stability
The fifth stage consists of an intimacy growth spurt, coupled with a sense of renewed stability. They say that shared trauma can bring star-crossed lovers together, and in stage five, the relationship that was once in turmoil, has now become reconnected by the common goal of helping each other grow both as individuals and partners. It's here we learn some of the ways we have sabotaged relationships in the past, and now we learn to change those behaviors. This is a stage you can enjoy working through at your leisure, but be careful not to fall victim to resentment which can occur when we overly compromise to meet the needs/dreams of a partner, without communicating our own expectations.

Stage 6: Romantic Love
If you thought that young love was wonderful, wait until you've experienced mature love. Couples who have been together long enough to work though the first five stages of a relationship know the difference between passionate and romantic love. Passionate love is built from obsession, sexual longing, and jealousy -- while romantic love comes from comfort, communication, sexual chemistry, and security. The most difficult portion of this stage is keeping up the maintenance necessary to propel this level of advanced communication and intimacy. It's easy to slip into a lower stage once a crisis evolves.

Stage 7: Crisis and Recovery
This stage can occur anytime, but due to its advanced nature, it will be considered the final stage of a relationship. A crisis could be considered an illness, job loss, death of a child, or an affair. Recovery lies in resisting the urge to take these frustrations out on each other, by taking on both roles of caretaker and patient. A crisis is equaling draining on both partners, therefore it's important to be available to give and receive. The good news is, if you recover you will have gained valuable team building experience that will enable you to take on any further challenges life has to offer.

Venus Enters Gemini From April 24 through May 19, 2010

Venus Enters Gemini
Get your FLIRT on!

by Cortney Litwin

It's time to access your inner flirt and have some fun! From April 24 through May 19, 2010, Venus will be jaunting through Gemini, the sign of witty repartee. It can heighten your desire for a brain-to-brain connection with your sweetie, or a desire to attract someone who's cerebrally in tune with you. Lively flirting, insightful discussions, journaling, networking, romantic trips and verbalizing your desires are all favored by Venus in Gemini. For more specifics on how to use this influence to spice up your love life, read your Sun and the ascendant signs below.

Aries: Now is an excellent time to share your feelings because your flair for words is especially strong. Expressing your humor and knowledge will attract admirers. Networking is an especially effective way to meet a potential lover and/or new friends. You're also likely to meet someone during a class or trip. Traveling with friends can bring delight as well.

Taurus: Setting aside your usual reserve and expressing your heart and mind will heighten your confidence and inspire a romantic interlude as well. Discussing what's important to you can deepen your relationship or help you attract someone compatible. A little verbal naughtiness will accentuate your sensuality and make you irresistible!

Gemini: Venus traveling through your sign amplifies your natural flirtatiousness, making you a magnet for multiple admirers. If you're involved, shared activities and intellectual pursuits will bring you closer together. If you're solo, look for romance during social activities. You might just let someone capture your heart, if they're fascinating enough to hold your interest!

Cancer: Your emotionalism gets a lift from airy Venus in Gemini, bringing out your inner comedian (we know it's there!). Expressing your feelings in a sincere but light-hearted way will inspire romance. A quiet setting can inspire/deepen love, too. Reminiscing about the past may bring a surprising insight that sheds light on your relationship patterns.

Leo: Lions turn into social butterflies during Venus in Gemini. Spending time with friends who connect with your heart will bring satisfaction. Group activities can produce a romantic prospect, or a friend might match you up with someone special. Getting involved in a community project may bring a romantic interlude, too!

Virgo: Because both Virgo and Gemini are ruled by Mercury, the planet of intellect, your natural powers of perception are heightened now. People will be drawn to your acumen and expertise, not to mention the lofty mystique that surrounds you, so put yourself out there and share who you are! If you're solo, look for romance during career-related activities.

Libra: Venus in Gemini launches your charm into the stratosphere. There's very little you can do wrong in the romance arena now, unless you hide your light in a dark corner instead of letting it shine on those you love (or potentially love). Romance can be found online or during spiritual, cultural or educational activities.

Scorpio: Venus in Gemini arises from the depths of your psyche to put a playful spin on love. Now is not the time for tumultuous trysts -- strive to lighten up and enjoy the moment. Intimacy will be tied to your intellect. As such, naughty verbal exchanges and erotic literature can heighten the bliss between the sheets.

Sagittarius: Archers will feel the love of Venus in their partnership sector. Enjoying some quality one-on-one time with your sweetie is a must. If you're solo, you'll have an easier time meeting someone compatible, if you don't let commitment phobia fend off love. Getting clear about what you want in a relationship will help you manifest a partner.

Capricorn: Mixing the social sparkle of Venus in Gemini with your grounded, sensual nature will bring romance to your doorstep. Offering your assistance to someone in need, whether it's a friend or charity group, may bring in a potential lover. If you're already involved, working together on a project will energize your relationship.

Aquarius: Your brainy brilliance blooms during Venus in Gemini, which is energizing your romance sector -- lucky you! If you find yourself with too many lovers but too little time, try being pickier, so you can experience more depth in love. Of course, exploring the depths of lusty encounters by being creative in the boudoir will bring satisfaction too.

Pisces: Venus in Gemini brings out your inner guru, making you a magnet for those who appreciate your intelligence and insightfulness. As such, sharing your wisdom with others can bring romance. You might meet a potential lover through a family member, too. Hosting a bash at your abode (or a cozy date for two) will bring fulfillment.

Cortney

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Chinese Horoscope 2010 - Ox

Love
You'll feel strongly attracted to intriguing situations and towards people who aren't available or ready for a stable relationship. You'll feel physical attraction towards new encounters in summer but watch out you don't confuse your feelings for True Love as disappointments are inevitable.
Work
January and February could be tiring, bringing problems and susceptibility. However, by being intelligent and shrewd, you'll be able to promote the situations which interest you. Try to save a little in winter to put some cash away for a rainy day. Don't put off finding solutions to work problems - your motto should be "Do today what you could do tomorrow!"
Health
You can expect a year of considerable psychophysical well-being. Look carefully at the energetic quality of your house. In winter, use rose water and in spring, change to musk; in summer, douse yourself in honeysuckle and in winter, sandalwood.


Chinese Horoscope 2010 - Dog Goran sonček ...lev(-ček ;)) ;)

Love
Expect a year where your blood will flow tumultuously! Love will turn your life upside down. In February, you will meet your soul mate. A wedding is on the cards! Those who are already married will miss how they felt when they were teenagers. The relationship will have a new lease of life thanks to really constructive dialog.
Work
If you are self employed, the Stars will help your income increase. In May, some difficulties could occur to those who work with abroad. Beware of the hidden dangers of October as a co-worker or associate could force you to take on more responsibility than you should.
Health
You'll have great psychophysical energy for most of the year, apart from a little vulnerability to the winter's typical illnesses.

Queen - I want to break free

petek, 23. april 2010

Schiller mit Heppner - Dream of You(live)

od srca do srca...od duše do duše...pa naj je od enega do drugega konca sveta,če že mora biti...zaenkrat ;)



nedelja, 11. april 2010

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